People ask me all the time how do you go about attracting the perfect mate? It is important to remove the idea that there is only one ideal mate for us. In other words, there is no such thing as “the One”. You have many and it is just a matter of choosing the right person for you at that point in your life.
In order to find the perfect mate, I highly recommend you do the following. Trust me – this strategy has worked for many people who are now in happy, loving relationships.
- Write down a DETAILED list of qualities you are looking for in a mate. For example, he/she is loyal, monogamous, funny, loves seafood and enjoys jazz music. There is no such thing as too much. The more detail you provide, the more likely you will get what you want. (Oprah recommends this strategy as well!)
- Practice gratitude everyday! Be grateful for what you have. Also, be grateful that you are in love with the perfect mate. Then, continue to read the qualities you have written down. Again, this must be done every day!
- Make room for your future mate. Act as if this person is already in your life living with you. Sleep on one side of the bed to make room for your mate. Also, make room in the closet for your future mate’s clothes.
- Create your love corner. On the far right hand corner of your bedroom as you are standing at the door, place 2 pink candles and a statue of a couple or 2 mini statues representing a couple. For example, you can have 2 ceramic birds in the corner. Also, purchase 2 silk flowers and place them in a vase located in the same corner the statue and candles are placed. Light the candles as often as you wish!
- Act as if you are in love! Have you noticed that when you are in a relationship, you tend to attract more people? This is due to the fact that you are emitting positive energy, the “in love” energy which is drawing people towards you. If you act as if you are in love, you will manifest more people.
- Visualize your perfect relationship. Spend 17 seconds 2 times a day visualizing your perfect relationship. Also, feel that person! Feel and visualize that person kissing you and hugging you.
- Love yourself first! If you do not love and respect yourself, then how can you expect to meet someone who loves you and respects you? Love and pamper yourself! The more you love yourself, the more likely you will manifest someone who loves you just the same. The more love, the better!
Remember, the key to happiness is living out your passion and loving yourself. With this inner passion and unconditional love towards yourself will bring loving and amazing people into your life. It will also help you find your “True Love”.
Sending you love and light.
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